SHANIA TWAIN AND HER HUSBAND CAME INTO THIS MARRIAGE CARRYING THE EXACT SAME INJURY.

Long before Shania Twain became one of the most recognizable voices in music, and long before Frédéric Thiébaud became the man beside her, their lives were already quietly connected. They met in Switzerland in the 1990s, when both were married and both couples spent time together as friends. It was an ordinary kind of friendship on the surface: shared holidays, familiar faces, and the easy comfort of people who believed the same circle of trust could hold them all together.

Shania Twain has said she even considered Marie-Anne Thiébaud one of her closest friends. That detail matters, because the heartbreak that followed was not only about romance. It was also about betrayal inside a friendship she thought was safe. In 2008, both marriages collapsed after it emerged that Robert “Mutt” Lange had been involved with Marie-Anne Thiébaud. The damage landed on both Shania Twain and Frédéric Thiébaud at once, and in a strange way, that shared pain became the beginning of something new.

When Grief Recognized Grief

Shania Twain later said that Frédéric Thiébaud was the one person who could comfort her, because he had been through exactly the same thing. That kind of understanding does not need long explanations. Sometimes it is simply the relief of being with someone who already knows the shape of the hurt.

They began dating in 2009, and on New Year’s Day 2011 they married at sunset in Rincón, Puerto Rico, in front of family and friends. The setting was beautiful, but the deeper story was not about scenery. It was about two people deciding that the same injury could either keep them apart or teach them how to care for each other more honestly.

What Holds Them Together

Fifteen years later, Shania Twain has said the secret to their marriage is not simply romance. According to her, Frédéric Thiébaud will not let things sit unsaid. If a problem appears, he wants it discussed right away. Shania Twain says her own instinct is often different: to walk it off, sit alone with her guitar, and come back to it later. She has admitted that he is not wrong.

That difference sounds small, but in real life it can be everything. One person pushes for immediate honesty. The other needs space to breathe. Together, they have built a rhythm that seems to make room for both.

“This is the love I’m going to grow old with,” Shania Twain told People.

She also said that if she had met Frédéric Thiébaud as a teenager, he still would have been her lifelong love. It is a striking thought, but maybe not a surprising one. Sometimes love does not arrive as rescue. Sometimes it arrives as recognition — two people finding that the part of life that broke them is also what taught them how to stay.

For Shania Twain and Frédéric Thiébaud, the marriage began in pain, but it has endured through honesty, patience, and the kind of trust that has to be earned twice. That may be why their story still resonates. It is not perfect. It is human. And for them, that seems to be enough.